Oops. I meant the lesbians and you and I. Ann was saying that it could help us understand the role we'd play if we decide to be part of the baby's life and help us deal with the "emotional ramifications" of my donation.

Though, the way Mom would want to dive in headfirst, it would be a good idea for her to have some counseling with the lesbians on her own. They may talk to her about it and just not tell me.